Most motherless daughters are afraid of becoming a mother for several reasons: Nobody taught them how to be a mom or do mommy things.  You wont have anyone to call for good or bad things.  You fear becoming your mother.  You fear damaging your kids.  You have very little good experiences from your childhood to discuss and relate with your child.  You fear that your child is missing out on a grandmother. 

If this is you, this is what I want you to think about:  Don’t dismiss or interfere with your maternal instinct.   You will be more sensitive than your mother.   You can learn what you didn’t get from your mother.